ABOUT LOVE WITH ME
Supporting your journey to love
Founder's Story
Thank you for finding yourself here today....
I'm Megan, and if you are anything like me, you have had and continue to have a full life which may have included career highlights, travel, volunteering, hobbies, businesses, friends and family. Yet you yearn for a partner in life to add to this fabulous life you have.
In my thirties, I was in a relationship that ended suddenly, and I found myself starting the journey to meet a new "love of my life". Well that journey ended up being seven years. During that time, I tried many different avenues to meet someone and I made a lot of friends along the way. Speed dating, online dating, volunteering, fitness groups for singles, charity lunches, charity events, team sports, networking events, matchmakers, I bought every dating book in the bookshop.... and I even went on the TV show Farmer Wants a Wife, you name it I probably did it. I did meet the "love of my life" (not perfection but love) and we have been together for eight years now.
Empathy is at the heart of my approach. I understand that vulnerability and courage are integral parts of seeking a romantic partner. I provide ongoing support and encouragement, helping you navigate the emotional ups and downs of dating. This compassionate guidance can be a reassuring presence, giving you the strength to stay hopeful and open-hearted even when faced with setbacks or disappointments.
In all aspects of our lives, we rely on professionals to assist us, Doctors for our health, Recruiters for our careers and Real Estate Agents for our homes, so I believe in supporting you and being your advocate to find a romantic partner. People outsource so much of their lives, why should relationships be any different.
I get to know you personally before embarking on the search for your ideal partner. I offer a safe, supportive, and effective way to find a meaningful connection and are a trusted ally for anyone looking to transform their love life and discover the joy of a true, lasting relationship.
Megan
xox
Advice on looking for the perfect partner
My number one piece of advice is perfect does not exist. By the time you have lived a little, we have developed some traits and behaviours that a partner might find challenging, a lot of us carry some hurt, grief or trauma. My advice is to be patient, accept some flaws, and acknowledge “I am not perfect” and therefore I should not expect my partner to be perfect.
My own relationship over the years has been far from perfect. We have been challenged and tested in many ways. There have been many tears, many arguments. People nowadays want love to be easy. They want it to be like the movies. They want it to be effortless and easy all of the time. But it’s not. It’s sacrifices. It’s getting so annoyed you don’t want to be around each other some days. It’s forgiving. It’s apologising. It’s talking about the hard things even when you know it’s going to trigger them or make them mad. It’s messy, it’s ugly, and it’s hard. But once you get past all of that, it’s worth it.
Love isn’t what you see in the movies. It’s not meeting the love of your life at a cute little coffee shop, falling in love immediately, and then everything just falling into place. Relationships can get boring. It happens, usually around the 7-10 year mark. You may think because of what you see online, or in the movies, that the person you’re with should never bore you. That’s wrong. They will bore you. They will annoy you. It’s normal. It happens. That’s when most people leave, but if you really want that amazing once in a life time love, you need to fight through that because the part after that, is so amazing.
Be kind, be patient and forgiving. Don’t give up when it gets hard. Don’t give up when it gets boring. Don’t walk away just because it gets challenging. Because on the other side of the hard, boring, and mundane part, is a love so safe, calm, and serene.
If you are looking for a new chapter, a "non perfect' but genuine love connection and partner.
Let’s chat. It's not too late to date.
